There is a difference between allowing a women do whatever she wants, and treating her accordingly
(which is what I advise)

And

Having a woman treat you anyhow, giving you drama, wasting your time and treating you like shit

Lemme elaborate further

How to respond like a Sabi Boy/ Enlightened alpha/ Zen Alpha, when she asks...

Her: Sabi Boy, are you still seeing other girls?

Her: Sabi Boy, have you had sex with any new girls lately?

She finds something at your place that belongs to another girl

Her: Sabi Boy, whose earrings are these?

A call comes in from another girl and the girl with you currently sees it

Her: who is that?

Understand that women aren't stupid

Their intuition is actually sharper than that of the average man

Unless she's a complete imbecile, she knows what all these things mean

It means

1. You have other women in your life
2. You're not sharing the details
3. It's not a big deal

Her body count
Part 1

Signs that she's only had sex with 0 to 2 men°

These girls are sweet and trusting with men they're already having sex with

They're playing love on beginner level

The emotions she feels are strong

Here is how you know she has only had sex with 0 to 2 men

1. She will have a very strong emotional attachment to you

2. She hardly takes charge in the relationship, she let's you be in charge

3. She doesn't doubt or suspect you of anything

4. She usually believes everything you tell her

5. She can often times be shy and reserved

6. She will fall in love with you pretty quickly

7. She can be conservative and unwilling to try out new things

8. She feels like sex is naughty but exciting

9. She will have some sexual inhibitions

10. She believes that Love = Sex

For y'all monogamous men, women with 0 to 2 partners will hardly ever cheat. Most will not.

They are usually devoted to their man and think he's God sent... Usually

There's some fear mixed in too, what if she loses him? Will she never find another guy like him again?

Men... If you're going to be involved with women with low body counts, handle them responsibly. Their relationship with you will contribute to her formation. You're going to have an impact. Don't get involved with such girls if you're not looking for love in the future

For the Time limited hustler who strives for wealth and freedom, you have 2 choices to make

1. Increase the Value of your Time

2. Completely separate the money you make from the time you spend

Pick whichever sounds nice to your ear before you continue reading this thread

I'd like to

1. Increasing the value of one's time is the realm of very successful business practitioners and self employed men

Musicians, footballers, doctors, etc

Wizkid can get paid millions for a couple of hours

Messi gets paid thousands of dollars for 90 minutes on the pitch

But there's a caveat...

In going down this route, one has to be AMAZING at what they do

What's worse?

Even if you're the best at what you do, other people still get to decide what your time is worth...

Her body count
Part 3

Signs she's had sex with 8 to 19 men°

These women are the most stressful

Their views about love, dating, relationships and sex have been dashed upon the rocks of reality

This leaves them typically angry and cynical about men

Here's how to spot them...

1. They are cautious and hate the fact that they may love you

2. can fall in love quickly but will fight it all the way

3. the most capable of drama at this stage

4. They are usually suspicious and wouldn't believe anything you tell them

5. They try to control themselves...

Other times they let themselves go recklessly

6. Sex for them is purely physical, but she may or may not like this

7. Has sexual preferences

8. She hates the fact that sex doesn't equate to love

These girls are becoming more aware of the reality of life, sex and love and they hate the fact that things are not as they seem. They haven't completely accepted things yet and this is what makes them upset.

If this girl has fast sex with a guy and he doesn't immediately want a relationship with her, she'll hate him for not seeing how amazing she is after she got intimate with him

Her body count
Part 2

Signs that she's had sex with 3 to 7 men°

These girls are shy but they're also curious and open to try out new things

If you're pretty good in the bedroom, you'll enjoy teaching these girls

You can be one of the most influential figures in her life if...

you reach her during this phase and teach her how to enjoy sex and understand her body better

These girls are also pretty open too

Here's how you can spot them

1. They will have a fairly strong emotional attachment to you

2. They may or may not fall in love with you quickly

3. might attempt to take charge but they'll give in quickly to alphas

4. suspects you of things but they are calm

5. fluctuates between being shy then excited

6. May seem conservative but also willing to test the waters outside

7. She is unclear about the relationship between sex and love

Women with 3 to 7 body counts are more likely to cheat than the woman with 0 to 2 partners

They are also more likely to have fast and casual sex

She may not necessarily want them, but she is curious... And that's enough

She will put herself in situations where she can be...

If you're still in your 20s, read this:

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Editor asks me: Will you review That Pandemic Antho?

I say: Maybe. There are a lot of disabled writers in it, right?

Editor: ............

I say: Like, obviously?

Editor: ............

[After a while] Editor: Wouldn't it still be interesting if there were NOT a lot disabled writers in it? Your review could be about that?

Me: No. That's not interesting at all b/c my ideal audience is disabled writers & readers, so that's just like gross.

[I really did say "that's just gross" lol]

Editor: Lemme send you the TOC.

Me: Okay.

Meanwhile, I'm impatient so I just look up the antho b/c it's Big and Famous and Everywhere.

Here's what The Pandemic Anthology published by @AAKnopf looks like. Now remember: disabled people are the most affected by the pandemic, eg we die the most.

How many total poets? Ok I stopped counting at 100.

How many disabled poets? Oh boy. Are you ready.

1 radical disabled activist. Name spelled incorrectly in the TOC

1 not radical at all disabled writer. Most acceptable disabled writer to nondisabled literary establishment b/c this writer "doesn't make a big deal about it," as I have been told

The Compound Effect 🚀

{Thread}

What does the compound effect look like?

[[Magic Paisa]]

You got two choices:

1. Taking ₹30Lakhs today 💰 or
2. Taking 1 Paisa that DOUBLES every day for 31 days 💯

Which one would you take?

To make great wealth you should go with option 2 🚀

Here why: Day 1: ₹0.01,
- Day 10: ₹5.12
- Day 20: ₹5,243

This is when the magic happens, watch this

- Day 29: Around 26L
- Day 30: ₹53.6L

- Day 31: ₹1,07,37,664 (Three times the option 1) 🥂

“Small, Smart Choices + Consistency + Time = Significant results ” ⚡️

Let's talk about how to make the compound effect work for us:

The compound effect works on both sides "Positive & Negative"

One like = one* interesting book pairing

* with an option to give up any time after 100 tweets

(Not formally part of @threadapalooza, just a warm up exercise / fodder for if I do give in to the imp of the perverse and do a 100 threads thread.)

1. "Ritual and its Consequences" with "Games: Agency as Art".

Both detailed analyses of social technologies (rituals and games) and how people engage with them by essentially suspending the normal complexities of the world within a structure. Would reward detailed comparison.

2. "The Collected Schizophrenias" with Ratcliffe's "Feelings of Being"

Autobiography of someone with schizophrenia paired with a detailed phenomenological analysis of what it's like to be schizophrenic. The latter would be an interesting lens to read the former through.

(<)3. "All About Love" by bell hooks and "About Love" by Josef Pieper.

The reason for the pairing is fairly obvious, but each of these has had significant and distinct impacts on my understanding of love.

(Both are fairly religious and/or spiritual)