How to respond like a Sabi Boy/ Enlightened alpha/ Zen Alpha, when she asks...

Her: Sabi Boy, are you still seeing other girls?

For the Time limited hustler who strives for wealth and freedom, you have 2 choices to make

1. Increase the Value of your Time

2. Completely separate the money you make from the time you spend

Pick whichever sounds nice to your ear before you continue reading this thread

I'd like to

1. Increasing the value of one's time is the realm of very successful business practitioners and self employed men

Musicians, footballers, doctors, etc

Wizkid can get paid millions for a couple of hours

Messi gets paid thousands of dollars for 90 minutes on the pitch

But there's a caveat...

In going down this route, one has to be AMAZING at what they do

What's worse?

Even if you're the best at what you do, other people still get to decide what your time is worth...

There is a difference between allowing a women do whatever she wants, and treating her accordingly
(which is what I advise)

And

Having a woman treat you anyhow, giving you drama, wasting your time and treating you like shit

Lemme elaborate further

Her body count
Part 1

Signs that she's only had sex with 0 to 2 men°

These girls are sweet and trusting with men they're already having sex with

They're playing love on beginner level

The emotions she feels are strong

Here is how you know she has only had sex with 0 to 2 men

1. She will have a very strong emotional attachment to you

2. She hardly takes charge in the relationship, she let's you be in charge

3. She doesn't doubt or suspect you of anything

4. She usually believes everything you tell her

5. She can often times be shy and reserved

6. She will fall in love with you pretty quickly

7. She can be conservative and unwilling to try out new things

8. She feels like sex is naughty but exciting

9. She will have some sexual inhibitions

10. She believes that Love = Sex

For y'all monogamous men, women with 0 to 2 partners will hardly ever cheat. Most will not.

They are usually devoted to their man and think he's God sent... Usually

There's some fear mixed in too, what if she loses him? Will she never find another guy like him again?

Men... If you're going to be involved with women with low body counts, handle them responsibly. Their relationship with you will contribute to her formation. You're going to have an impact. Don't get involved with such girls if you're not looking for love in the future

The easiest way to make a woman come back to you is to hold the door wide open for her when she wants to leave

Go no contact

Don't call

Don't text

Don't hit her up with any new years, happy valentines, merry Christmas, etc

18 First Date Rules that'll improve your results with women

1. Never compliment her appearance even if she asks

2. Avoid saying anything outside a brief interesting story about yourself and simple questions for her

3. Let her do most of the talking my brother

4. Never lie. You don't have to answer every question directly.

Manipulation Sign:

If you are compromising too much, there is a chance that you are getting manipulated.

Why are you the one that's always compromising?

How come the other person always gets their way?

Be more curious.

If something seems off, stick up for yourself.

'Wait, you sure I am being manipulated?'

I have no clue, that is only something that you can decide for yourself.

'Dang is there anything I need to look out for?'

Plenty..

But let me give you a few things to look out for.

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I see manipulation as skillfully controlling someone's behavior for egotistical or unethical purposes.

'How come people don't leave when it's happening to them?'

Because most people have 0 clue that they are being manipulated.

1. Guilt Trip

You ever made a mistake around someone, only for them to hold it over your head?

The will always bring up the mistake when you 2 are not seeing eye to eye.

These people will use that mistake as leverage to get what they want from you in the future.

Look out.

2. The Rationalizer

This person will commit the worst acts & find a way to rationalize it.

Example: cheaters when they get caught.

They have every excuse in the book for why they did it.

Heck, they are so good at rationalizing, they will make it seem like your fault.

!. Simple Sabotage Tips
Unhappy with Everyday Life?
Frothing at the Mouth against oppressive bureaucracy?
Sick of petty tyrants and tin pot dictators?
Tormented by intrusive modern technology?
Feel like "sticking it to the man"?

2. The following is taken from sections 11,12 of the OSS's Simple Sabotage Field Manual, a 1944 document that has been declassified. The OSS became the CIA after WWII. The full document is

3. (a) Organizations and Conferences
Insist on doing everything through "channels." Never permit short-cuts to be taken in order to, expedite decisions.

4. Make "speeches." Talk as frequently as possible and at great length. Illustrate your "points" by long anecdotes and accounts of personal experiences.
Never hesitate to make a few appropriate "patriotic" comments.

5. When possible, refer all matters to committees, for "further study & consideration"
make the committees as large as possible - never less than 5
- Bring up irrelevant issues as frequently as possible
- Haggle over precise wordings of communications, minutes, resolutions

The Law of Trust

“I’m not upset that you lied to me. I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe in you”- Friedrich Nietzsche

Sometimes in October, I received a call from a former client who had been out of the country for almost a year.

He is not a Nigerian but had just secured an appointment with a company. His first statement was “Bayo, I need to pick your brain on this because with you I know where I stand. I know you’ll not deceive me”.

After our discussion, he told me he had already informed his Chairman that their banking relationship had to come to me. I’ve signed it on since.

I’ve had cause to reflect over his statement many times since then. Here was a man whom sometimes I had very difficult conversations with. I’ve had to tell him no when I knew his requests were not possible. Sometimes, the relationship was stormy.

I never fail to tell my colleagues that the major currency for transaction is integrity and this will only be sustained in an atmosphere of trust. Never lie to customers in order to make a sale.

10 Types of Toxic People You Should Avoid in Life

=A THREAD BY WD=

1. The Manipulator

It’s one of the most seen toxic traits.

They pull time and energy out of your life.

Manipulators always want something from you,
They’ll do anything to win you over.

2. The Liar

If a person lies to you for the first time; forgive them. If a person lies to you for the second time, avoid them.

Never lie to someone who trusts you. Never trust someone who lies to you.

3. The Gossiper

“Great minds discuss ideas, average ones discuss events, and small minds discuss people.”

They also have an uncanny ability to put your success in danger.

Stay away from the gossip. They’re unkind, unproductive, and will hurt your chances for success.

4. The Envious

Envious people are jealous of your achievements, happiness, success, and the love you receive.

Keep an eye on such types of toxic people to avoid disturbance in your life.

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