18 First Date Rules that'll improve your results with women

Her body count
Part 2

Signs that she's had sex with 3 to 7 men°

These girls are shy but they're also curious and open to try out new things

If you're pretty good in the bedroom, you'll enjoy teaching these girls

You can be one of the most influential figures in her life if...

you reach her during this phase and teach her how to enjoy sex and understand her body better

These girls are also pretty open too

Here's how you can spot them

1. They will have a fairly strong emotional attachment to you

2. They may or may not fall in love with you quickly

3. might attempt to take charge but they'll give in quickly to alphas

4. suspects you of things but they are calm

5. fluctuates between being shy then excited

6. May seem conservative but also willing to test the waters outside

7. She is unclear about the relationship between sex and love

Women with 3 to 7 body counts are more likely to cheat than the woman with 0 to 2 partners

They are also more likely to have fast and casual sex

She may not necessarily want them, but she is curious... And that's enough

She will put herself in situations where she can be...

For the Time limited hustler who strives for wealth and freedom, you have 2 choices to make

1. Increase the Value of your Time

2. Completely separate the money you make from the time you spend

Pick whichever sounds nice to your ear before you continue reading this thread

I'd like to

1. Increasing the value of one's time is the realm of very successful business practitioners and self employed men

Musicians, footballers, doctors, etc

Wizkid can get paid millions for a couple of hours

Messi gets paid thousands of dollars for 90 minutes on the pitch

But there's a caveat...

In going down this route, one has to be AMAZING at what they do

What's worse?

Even if you're the best at what you do, other people still get to decide what your time is worth...

How to respond like a Sabi Boy/ Enlightened alpha/ Zen Alpha, when she asks...

Her: Sabi Boy, are you still seeing other girls?

Her: Sabi Boy, have you had sex with any new girls lately?

She finds something at your place that belongs to another girl

Her: Sabi Boy, whose earrings are these?

A call comes in from another girl and the girl with you currently sees it

Her: who is that?

Understand that women aren't stupid

Their intuition is actually sharper than that of the average man

Unless she's a complete imbecile, she knows what all these things mean

It means

1. You have other women in your life
2. You're not sharing the details
3. It's not a big deal

There is a difference between allowing a women do whatever she wants, and treating her accordingly
(which is what I advise)

And

Having a woman treat you anyhow, giving you drama, wasting your time and treating you like shit

Lemme elaborate further

Her body count
Part 3

Signs she's had sex with 8 to 19 men°

These women are the most stressful

Their views about love, dating, relationships and sex have been dashed upon the rocks of reality

This leaves them typically angry and cynical about men

Here's how to spot them...

1. They are cautious and hate the fact that they may love you

2. can fall in love quickly but will fight it all the way

3. the most capable of drama at this stage

4. They are usually suspicious and wouldn't believe anything you tell them

5. They try to control themselves...

Other times they let themselves go recklessly

6. Sex for them is purely physical, but she may or may not like this

7. Has sexual preferences

8. She hates the fact that sex doesn't equate to love

These girls are becoming more aware of the reality of life, sex and love and they hate the fact that things are not as they seem. They haven't completely accepted things yet and this is what makes them upset.

If this girl has fast sex with a guy and he doesn't immediately want a relationship with her, she'll hate him for not seeing how amazing she is after she got intimate with him

1/ Something strange is happening with people’s sex lives. 20-somethings are having sex later and less frequently than previous generations. I spent several months digging into this for @theatlantic. https://t.co/5ehzmWY9wi

2/ This phenomenon—I’m calling it a Sex Recession—really surprised me. It seemed improbable in the age of Tinder, digital porn, and attitudes that are generally permissive and sex-positive.

3/ What’s happening isn’t exclusively American: Similar trends are being observed in other countries, including Japan, Australia, the U.K., Finland, and the Netherlands.

4/ One cause is obvious: Adults under 35 are less likely to be living with a partner than in recent decades, and more likely to be living with their parents—which, it’s safe to say, isn’t great for one’s sex life.

5/ But I also found other explanations, each with profound implications. The first, unsurprisingly, has to do with internet enticements. Netflix and other online entertainment may be substituting for sex.

I think the UK trans debate has teased out the sticking points for feminists, and it might be useful to lay them out given that the battle in the US, with a very different legislative environment, is just starting.

The GRA of 2004 gave trans people the ability to change legal sex via a GRC, but only if they had a psychiatric diagnosis of dysphoria and only after having lived in role for 2 years. The spousal veto gave spouses a chance to annul or obtain a favourable divorce.

While this ultimately created the loophole in women's rights that we've been fighting against in the last few years, it catered for a tiny number of dysphoric transsexuals and so did not have an enormous impact.

Discussions with trans friends and allies make it clear that, although surgery wasn't a requirement for a GRC, the diagnostic procedures were expected to trap and exclude males who did not want surgery, thereby preventing fetishists and opportunists from exploiting a GRC.

The Equality Act of 2010 defined the various protected characteristics, including both sex and 'gender reassignment', and provided for sex-based exemptions, under the auspices of which it is legal to exclude trans people from some single-sex spaces and services.

1. I was walking in the woods yesterday and I had an epiphany. It wasn’t one I wanted to have. I was thinking about today’s class, where we are reading Kimmerer’s ‘Gathering Moss’. I’ve taught Braiding Sweetgrass in multiple classes every year since 2016. It’s eminently teachable

2. Both books are beautifully written. Students uniformly enjoy them as assigned reading. They do a great job communicating to non-Indigenous folks the contours of basic Indigenous relationships to more-than-human beings. They’re wildly popular with white readers.

3. I’ve found Braiding Sweetgrass to be a great entry point for non-Indigenous folks to Indigenous scholarship. But this is where yesterday’s epiphany comes in. Neither Braiding Sweetgrass or Gathering Moss tends to the deep deep lineages of Indigenous scholarship in Canada or US

4. As the popularity of ‘Braiding Sweetgrass’ has soared, I’ve seen more and more white folks wax on about ‘braiding knowledge’. But they often don’t know any of the lineages of these concepts beyond what is presented in this one book. They confidently run with this.

5. Kimmerer does a commendable job of weaving in her own experiences, her family stories+nods to some very important knowledge keepers who deserve to be celebrated for their work. But Braiding Sweetgrass does not tend to the citational politics Sara Ahmed & others teach us about

Every crisis becomes a religion if it lasts long enough.

One factor in that transformation is the Beautiful Theory phenomenon: the power elite insists its remedies are logical and politically correct so they MUST work, even if the actual evidence shows they obviously don't.