*Thread* - Needing nothing attracts everything

Building your kingdom

Do they need you more than you need them?

Answering this question honestly, can almost always predict the outcome

(Sales, Dates, Friendships...anything)

Are you inviting them to your kingdom

Or are you inviting yourself into their kingdom?
Be like the lighthouse

Firm & grounded

In the country (life) you’ve built

You shine so bright those who see the lighthouse are attracted to come

Getting out of the sea into certainty
To the promise land, where their needs & desires are met
Fill your own cup
Build your country

Then you need nothing

Needing nothing attracts everything

Now when you invite people to your kingdom

it is genuinely more needed/desired by them

Because you live there, you already have it & invite them to share in it
But if it is you who is lost at sea

You need it more than they do

When you port they will check your passport

Make you jump through hoops, qualify yourself, prove yourself, chase

Build your kingdom & you’ll never need to chase again

You’ll already have what others chase
Less you need the more you have
More you have the more you give
More you give the more you receive

When you are lost at sea you have nothing to give

So you must always chase for entry into other people’s reality & often get rejected

Needing approval & access to that reality
It’s a uneasy feeling

Your emotional well-being is in the hands of others reactions to you

A limiting & suffocating feeling

Ignore other kingdoms for now

Drive back home. You may not like what you see
🦋 Nurture your garden & the butterfly will come

Do not chase the butterfly

Build your kingdom both internally (mindsets, frame, beliefs, state)

And externally (reflections of your state/beliefs/mindsets)
- income, hobbies, relationships, social circle, etc
🏰 Seek first the kingdom & all your other desires shall be added on to you

Thank you for reading

Cheers,
- Yous

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How to get smarter very fast:

Interact with smart people here on Twitter who have different world-views than you do.

And let them change your mind on something.

Here are the 30 people you should follow (along with my favorite tweet from each)👇👇

Twitter can be terrible if you follow negative people.

It can also be more valuable than a college degree if you follow (and network with) the right people.

You get to look right into their brain and read a daily narrative of HOW they think.

Ok lets go:

#1: @ShaanVP

You know he's all about venture capital based entrepreneurship. I'm about small (non-sexy) business. We disagree on a lot of stuff.

But he's done it and he's won. Bonus follow: @theSamParr (@myfirstmilpod podcast


#2: @fortworthchris

He is where I want to be in 15 years. Has built a massive real estate private equity firm from the ground up. Super grounded with what the way he does business and his podcast @theFORTpodcast is top


#3: @Julian

I'm a scattered thinker and procrastinator.

Julian is a master of clear thinking and simple but effective writing. A world class example of content marketing and

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