𝑨-𝑳𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒇 𝒔𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈
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Jin Ling learned at a very young age that sharing applies to not only his toys and his snacks but his favorite uncle, too.
“Jiujiu, who is that?” The six years old asked clinging tighter to Jiang Cheng.
Lan Xichen was politely nervous to meet the owner who has occupied Jiang Cheng’s heart since birth.
“Hi, Jin Ling,” Lan Xichen returns all too nervous. Jiang Cheng couldn’t help but laugh. Is Lan Xichen seriously nervous of a six years old?
Jiang Cheng nods his head and Jin Ling’s little heart suddenly goes awry.
He throws his tiny body onto his bed and burry his tears into the bedsheet. He doesn’t like his uncle’s boyfriend. He doesn’t like that his boyfriend is here.
Jin Ling sobs his tinting heart out understanding that he does not want to share his uncle with anyone—particularly those who will take his uncle away from him.
Jiang Cheng approached his boyfriend and caresses his face with his hand leaning his body into his. “A-Ling doesn’t hate you. He is still learning about sharing.
“A-Ling?” Jiang Cheng soft calls at the door. Jin Ling response with a mumbled reply refusing to lift his face from being burry deep into the bedsheets
“A-Ling, can you please look at jiujiu?” Jiang Cheng asked softly as he placed a hand on his nephew’s back.
Jin Ling knew it wasn’t polite to have someone beg so he finally lifted his head up and oh my gosh, Jiang Cheng’s heart couldn’t help itself from hurting.
Jiang Cheng patted his back and gave him soothing assurance to allow him to cry it all out before they have a conversation. They stayed like that for thirty minutes before Jin Ling’s cries soften and he
Jiang Cheng knew it won’t be easy to introduce his boyfriend to Jin Ling. He had talked about this with his sister and both
Jin Ling nodded his head.
“Can you tell Jiujiu why you cried?” Jin Ling shook his head.
“Is it because jiujiu’s boyfriend is here?” Jin Ling nodded his head and that made
“Do you not like him?” Jin Ling doesn’t answer. Jin Ling wants to say yes but then that would make his uncle sad and he doesn’t want his uncle to be sad.
but there are moments he keeps quiet—it usually is when he is hurting.
“A-Ling, can you please talk to Jiujiu?” Jiang Cheng begs again hoping this time his nephew will
“Scared.” Jin Ling mumbled.
“Hmm?” Jiang Cheng couldn’t make out what his nephew said.
“Scared? Why is A-Ling scared?” Jiang Cheng hadn’t thought Jin Ling would be this affected by his relationship.
“Jiujiu no time for A-Ling anymore. A-Ling not jiujiu favorite anymore.” Jin Ling’s tired voice confessed.
By instinct, Jiang Cheng tighten his embrace around Jin Ling and moved his hand upward to gently pat the back
“A-Ling, jiujiu will always have time for you. Just because jiujiu has a boyfriend now doesn’t mean we can’t spend time together anymore.”
“But today is A-Ling and Jiujiu but jiujiu brought boyfriend.”
Jin Ling didn’t say anything and continue to rest his head on his uncle’s chest.
Jin Ling was scared with someone else in Jiang Cheng’s life, he will no longer have the time to spend with Jin Ling like usual. Maybe Jin Ling was being selfish. Does a six years old even know what being selfish is?
“A-Ling listen to me,” Jiang Cheng finally said pulling his nephew away from his chest to face him.
“I promise.” Jiang Cheng hooked his pinky to Jin Ling’s and their thumbs kissed.
——
Lan Xichen tried to have small talks with Jin Ling trying to figure out what he likes—not that Lan Xichen was
“Jin Ling, your jiujiu tells me you have a dog named Fairy.”
Lan Xichen smiles. He is making small progress. Jiang Cheng rose from his seat to grab them some drinks and a juice box for Jin Ling.
Lan Xichen was about to say something when Jin Ling starts first. “Do you want to meet Fairy?”
“Mister, if you are not nice to my jiujiu, A-Ling will have Fairy bite you, okay?”
“I promise to always love your jiujiu with my all.” Lan Xichen pledge.
Jin Ling smiles at him and Lan Xichen knew Jin Ling accepted him.
—END—
(Four years later)
“Jingyi!” Jin Ling yelled at the top of his lungs and ran full speed tackling the other little boy to the ground. They both laughed hysterically, limbs tangled together.
To everyone’s surprised, Jin Ling and Lan Jingyi got along so well they became inseparable.
Suddenly, Jin Ling realize that sharing isn’t so bad after all. He gained a best friend and a new brother thanks to Lan Xichen and Jiang Cheng.
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A few thoughts on this sad development 👇👇
20 academics criticizing an paper is fine; good science, really
10000+ hate mail for studying schools in Sweden is insane
Anonymous docs/ prof (hiding in faceless accts) on twitter smearing researchers is insane
[thread] https://t.co/QYldLD3WO0
In April 2020, @jflier and I saw this coming
We saw increasingly heated and personal attacks against scientists merely for having a range of views on COVID19 (PS there is no playbook/ right ans)
Tying science to naked politics was also bad idea, we
Yet, repeatedly that is what happened. Twitter 'experts' displayed an absolute intolerance to other views
Folks who disagreed weren't just wrong, they were malicious actors spreading "disinformation"
Really? Someone worked for 25 years as faculty to suddenly spread lies?
Disinformation has been so misused that it has lost meaning.
I recently saw an ID doc & lab researcher in the UK be accused of spreading "disinformation"
hahah, get outta here, you are trying to say "i disagree" but your keyboard is broken
Personal attacks have become so bad that I have seen a lab researcher accuse a doctor of wanting to engage in inappropriate relationships with patients due to diverging views on vaccine messaging
Seriously? It was a low point even for twitter
20 academics criticizing an paper is fine; good science, really
10000+ hate mail for studying schools in Sweden is insane
Anonymous docs/ prof (hiding in faceless accts) on twitter smearing researchers is insane
[thread] https://t.co/QYldLD3WO0
Together with @ernkrans, I am interviewed in @bmj_latest: "We need to ensure that our researchers understand the concept and value of academic freedom and the responsibility that comes with it"https://t.co/AFjtbSfgjr
— Ole Petter Ottersen (@ottersenolep) February 18, 2021
In April 2020, @jflier and I saw this coming
We saw increasingly heated and personal attacks against scientists merely for having a range of views on COVID19 (PS there is no playbook/ right ans)
Tying science to naked politics was also bad idea, we
Yet, repeatedly that is what happened. Twitter 'experts' displayed an absolute intolerance to other views
Folks who disagreed weren't just wrong, they were malicious actors spreading "disinformation"
Really? Someone worked for 25 years as faculty to suddenly spread lies?
Disinformation has been so misused that it has lost meaning.
I recently saw an ID doc & lab researcher in the UK be accused of spreading "disinformation"
hahah, get outta here, you are trying to say "i disagree" but your keyboard is broken
Personal attacks have become so bad that I have seen a lab researcher accuse a doctor of wanting to engage in inappropriate relationships with patients due to diverging views on vaccine messaging
Seriously? It was a low point even for twitter