I've also noticed that it's often that cheating is what women do when they don't want a divorce but, for a ridiculous number of reasons (most of which are probably ad hoc rationals) are upset.

>Why did you cheat?
>"I don't want to feel equal I want to feel special and I want dick."

>Don't you have a dick?
>"Oh he's so wonderful, so sweet, so kind. He is the greatest man in the world...but, I'm bored."

Welcome to the void.
And so the older study that concluded that "Women cheat because they love their husbands" is only getting more "correct".
This is not a world I was made for.
Ten years.
That's it.
This is getting worse at an unfathomable rate.
That bit about "It's not unhappy marriages as much as it is 'bored' ones. Normal ones." is one of those little bits of subversive information that potentially devastates everything.
Materialist Sexuality.
Everything is a tool to get what you want, and you want it all.
"The eternal date"

No one even dates anymore.
What is it they say? The uniform of the modern married woman is a sweater and sweat pants.
Now, if one presumes some things here, the question becomes "does the same reasoning go the other way?" But it's kind of the sign of the times we're in.

Nobody really asks this and they are both the perpetrator of the act and the victim.
Not to mention the act is not universally condemned as a failure on a personal level. Instead it's portrayed as a simple bargaining chip in this "economy of fuck".
If you're married and treating the other person like something you need to perform certain acts against to get certain results (no matter how immoral), as if there was some unknown intermediary interfering between the two, you've married someone you don't actually know.
The attitude of women has changed drastically too. Now the attitude towards this, now that it is women doing so, is this.
This woman is married, by the way.
https://t.co/QAmH3rgFdf
She says that very oddly, doesn't she?
As if she does expect to do that later on.

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