1. Begging you for forgiveness π§ββοΈ
When we do something wrong, big or small, then we should be apologising to you and asking for you to forgive and forget what we have done! π¬
You can decide how we apologise!
2. Begging for your attention π
Denying us things in a playful way can really polarise the masculine-feminine energy β―οΈ
Try denying us things that we REALLY want! π
3. Asking you for permission to do things π§
Things both in and out of the bedroom!
It's polite of us but more importantly it creates more polarity!! (I know I use that word a lot π
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4. Being restrained with ropes β
It doesn't matter if you're rope skills are pretty or if it's a mess... at least in the beginning! π
Rope, straps, cable ties etc. They are all good.
5. Have us nod for you more π
When you give us commands, make sure we nod too.
Words + Actions = Intensity
6. Allow us to feel 100000% safe around you π₯°
Try and remove as many worries about money, security, health and our future as possible, then we don't have to waste energy worrying! π
This is hard to find!!!
7. Listening to OUR fantasies and taking us through them in your own time βΊ
You're able to listen to our hints and then take us through all of our crazy ideas.
This is on top of already doing whatever YOU want to do! π
8. Cuddles right after super crazy sex π€
This one might sound really obvious but I think it's important after you've really "degraded" us π
Super dark to super light emotions! π
9. Choking us to show us it's not as bad as we thought π΅
If your lover has never been choked, she may wonder why people even enjoy it π§
But she will quickly realise after you start! π€€
10. Making us feel incredibly beautiful and desired π
Not with words and compliments, but with your eagerness and devilish looking eyes! π
Make us feel like your prized property! π
11. Have us discover what "pleasurable pain" is β
Slowly increase our pain tolerance during sex and tell us to enjoy the pain because that's as much as we're going to get! π
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12. Feeling "beneath" you π
We feel more comfortable when you seem to be better than us at most things!
Including sex! π€
Then being physically beneath you also helps!
13. The feeling of missing you super badly π
Maybe you need to travel for work, family or something else... it gives us a chance to truly appreciate you!
The more we miss you, the stronger our bond will be! π₯°
14. Rewarding us for behaviour you like π₯³
Don't bribe your lover with rewards!
Reward her spontaneously! π
15. Transforming our view of the world π
Help us see things that we were blind to before we met!
This has been so important for me, I'm a totally different person because of my man! π
When you believe something strongly enough, it will rub off on us! β¨
16. Having us use our safeword! π
This means that you have found our limits and are slowly pushing them!
It also means you're brave enough to test how far we can go! πͺ
These 16 ideas are a good start if you want to take your relationship from poor/average to incredible π
Your relationship should be working FOR you and not against you! β―οΈ
This is the real reason we care about these things... but they are fun too! π€ͺ
Now please go and try!!