The fact that we can't agree anymore on simple truths keeps me up at night.

In science we agreed on core values or rules where everyone could empirically check the assertion made.
Heck we built in mechanism to challenge core beliefs and get them universally accepted.
It's not the forbearance of decorum or independent thought.
It's not even one of those close, disputed scientific advances waiting on more data to be settled.
It's not even a highly disputed nor controversial research with credible counter research
It is particularly triggering being born into dictatorship and we spent our lifetimes crying out every election.
The result has been two men, father, son, shared power for 65 years.
We bought into these ideals to hold these undeniable 'truths' that all men are created equal.
Especially, when powerless all of your life, you've had a seat at table of ruthless repression.
We bought into democracy. Regardless of our imperfect. Cough. EC.
All people "seemingly" equal... Side effect includes... Imperfect, but at least respected.
You can only choose to embrace one truth.
Relentless rebuttal to your own believes, nevertheless.
It's sad the line in the sand is at seeking and accepting your truth.
Leaving consensus to history. May it be kind to you
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1/ Here’s a list of conversational frameworks I’ve picked up that have been helpful.

Please add your own.

2/ The Magic Question: "What would need to be true for you


3/ On evaluating where someone’s head is at regarding a topic they are being wishy-washy about or delaying.

“Gun to the head—what would you decide now?”

“Fast forward 6 months after your sabbatical--how would you decide: what criteria is most important to you?”

4/ Other Q’s re: decisions:

“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the *one* reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”

“What’s end-game here?”

“What does success look like in a world where you pick that path?”

5/ When listening, after empathizing, and wanting to help them make their own decisions without imposing your world view:

“What would the best version of yourself do”?

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