On Losing Everything 

Have you ever gone through a complete life overhaul? 

Losing money, your job , house, health and love amongst other things can be daunting, overwhelming and stressful!!!

It always feels like nothing is going right, people turn their back on you & you count every cent passing through your wallet. Whenever you feel like you have lost everything, maybe you're right where you need to be in order to transform your life & to receive blessings due to U!
I have learnt a few lessons along the way🙏

1. Suffering and losses are temporary -Sometimes you have to let go of  everything to gain something worthwhile;

2.Material Possessions and Status are for short term pleasure - Remain Humble at all times!
3. Less is MORE, de-clutter your life and learn to live within your means and that includes getting rid of the toxic people in your life!

4. Count Your Blessings  - You are blessed beyond your imagination despite your challenges; adopt an attitude of gratitude!
5. Avoid the Self Pity hole, yes you are going through difficulties but throwing the towel must never be an option! In life there are seasons, you too will have your season of tribulations; trials & disappointments but surely there is a season of Happiness , Love & Wealth
that is coming your way!

6. Centre yourself Spiritually, pray and meditate to bring peace to your Soul and find the strength to stand up again!

7. Fear and self doubt are Hinderances to your Success -Root them out completely!
8. If you truly believe, then whatever you have lost shall be replenished & multiplied  -Fill your mind with positive thoughts!

9. When you look back at your current situation; you will laugh about this moment & realise that losing everything may just have been the best thing
that ever happened to you! Sometimes life puts us at crossroads so that we can choose the best routes for our lives!

10. Forgiveness is KING, don't hold on to anger, revenge, resentment & grudges! 

Dlozi Vuma 🙌🏾

Gogo Tulas Jantjies - Ngelosi Yamathongo 🐍  ⛲ 🧘‍♀️

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1. LWJ’s sword Bichen ‘is likely an abbreviation for the term 躲避红尘 (duǒ bì hóng chén), which can be translated as such: 躲避: shunning or hiding away from 红尘 (worldly affairs; which is a buddhist teaching.) (
https://t.co/zF65W3roJe) (abbrev. TWX)

2. Sandu (三 毒), Jiang Cheng’s sword, refers to the three poisons (triviṣa) in Buddhism; desire (kāma-taṇhā), delusion (bhava-taṇhā) and hatred (vibhava-taṇhā).

These 3 poisons represent the roots of craving (tanha) and are the cause of Dukkha (suffering, pain) and thus result in rebirth.

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