Achieving goals breeds new ones.
A terrible situation creates misery, but a good situation doesn’t imply happiness.
Happiness takes inner work, gratitude for what’s had.
The good life’s a journey, not a destination.
It’s popular to read advice from highly successful people.
Their advice may be good for THEIR situation, but does it generalize to other circumstances?
Here’s my attempt to distill repeated advice from MANY highly successful people across many distinct circumstances:
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Achieving goals breeds new ones.
A terrible situation creates misery, but a good situation doesn’t imply happiness.
Happiness takes inner work, gratitude for what’s had.
The good life’s a journey, not a destination.
“Overnight successes” are rare, and are often misidentified. If you look closely, usually the person was practicing for 5-20 years before they were an “overnight success.”
Always be improving.
When young, people usually don’t know what they’re going to “do with their life.” That’s fine!
Life takes crazy, unexpected twists & turns.
Plans are great but expect to modify them.
Be adaptable and on the lookout for great, unexpected opportunities
Attempting hard things will bring stress, fear, and anxiety. If you avoid what you fear (more than is warranted by the level of danger) your potential will be curtailed.
Learn to push through your fears to do stressful things that are valuable.
Be thoughtful about who you are friends with, whether you spend enough quality time with your loved ones, etc.
Spending time with the wrong people will waste time or even sap potential.
Make enough time for the people that matter most to you
People will ask many things from you. If you always say yes it will drain energy & focus.
Say “yes” to your loved ones.
For others, consider if you realistically have the bandwidth without taking away from valued priorities. If not, give an authentic “no.”
Exercise regularly, reduce sugar, eat healthy foods that make you feel good, avoid excessive alcohol, meditate regularly, and seek treatment for mental health challenges.
Good health has ripple effects, and will help you achieve your goals.
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1/ Here’s a list of conversational frameworks I’ve picked up that have been helpful.
Please add your own.
2/ The Magic Question: "What would need to be true for you
3/ On evaluating where someone’s head is at regarding a topic they are being wishy-washy about or delaying.
“Gun to the head—what would you decide now?”
“Fast forward 6 months after your sabbatical--how would you decide: what criteria is most important to you?”
4/ Other Q’s re: decisions:
“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the *one* reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”
“What’s end-game here?”
“What does success look like in a world where you pick that path?”
5/ When listening, after empathizing, and wanting to help them make their own decisions without imposing your world view:
“What would the best version of yourself do”?
Please add your own.
2/ The Magic Question: "What would need to be true for you
1/\u201cWhat would need to be true for you to\u2026.X\u201d
— Erik Torenberg (@eriktorenberg) December 4, 2018
Why is this the most powerful question you can ask when attempting to reach an agreement with another human being or organization?
A thread, co-written by @deanmbrody: https://t.co/Yo6jHbSit9
3/ On evaluating where someone’s head is at regarding a topic they are being wishy-washy about or delaying.
“Gun to the head—what would you decide now?”
“Fast forward 6 months after your sabbatical--how would you decide: what criteria is most important to you?”
4/ Other Q’s re: decisions:
“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the *one* reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”
“What’s end-game here?”
“What does success look like in a world where you pick that path?”
5/ When listening, after empathizing, and wanting to help them make their own decisions without imposing your world view:
“What would the best version of yourself do”?
Today is a day to celebrate love in our lives.
And here at ACLU-MA, we know that justice is a labor of love. Here are some of our favorite moments of love and justice in the last year, to brighten your #ValentinesDay.
💞👇💞
Almost exactly a year ago, our clients Hanz and Maudy were reunited after being separated by the cruel "Return to Mexico" policy.
And here at ACLU-MA, we know that justice is a labor of love. Here are some of our favorite moments of love and justice in the last year, to brighten your #ValentinesDay.
💞👇💞
Almost exactly a year ago, our clients Hanz and Maudy were reunited after being separated by the cruel "Return to Mexico" policy.
Yesterday, a family of asylum seekers were reunited. Hanz & his son were subjected to #MPP, a cruel policy that forced them into dangerous cities in northern Mexico. We sued on their behalf, allowing them to rejoin their family in Massachusetts. pic.twitter.com/Kce6MTpS9C
— ACLU Massachusetts (@ACLU_Mass) February 7, 2020
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