If you want to become more confident than 97% of men, read this:

For 10 years, I was the shyest man alive.

• I was terrified of rejection
• I rarely made new friends or talked to women
• People told me to my face "why do you never talk?"

But, at 18 everything changed…

My lack of confidence led to rock bottom:

• I went through a bad break-up
• I binge drank every weekend
• I ended up in the hospital with alcohol poisoning

That was the turning point for me.

I did these 5 things and now I'm more confident than ever...

Become comfortable alone.

If you’re uncomfortable alone, it shows a lack of confidence in who you are.

• Go on walks alone
• Go to restaurants alone
• Go to the movies alone

When you become happy on your own, you won’t feel a need to impress others.

This is confidence.

Show confident body language.

Around 70%-93% of communication is nonverbal.

Talking confidently doesn't matter if your body doesn't match.

• Don’t figet
• Speak slower
• Hold eye contact
• Keep your chin up
• Give a firm handshake
• Stand up straight, shoulders back

10 things NOT to do in the workplace if you want to take control of your career:

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1. Seeking validation from others

By looking to others for approval, you show you lack confidence in yourself

This will make others lose confidence need in you, closing many doors for progression

They may also see this as a weakness and use it to control you for their own gain

2. Complain too much

Yes, there are often a lot of things to complain about in the workplace.

But if you want to progress, you need to be the guy that finds solutions. Not the guy that complains all the time.

Complaining a lot will likely take you off the radar for promotion

3. Overthinking

Everyone thinks things through when making a decision, but sometimes you just gotta get out of your head and get things done.

To progress, you need to be the doer, not the thinker

4. Playing the blame game

If you want to be a good manager one day, you gotta take personal responsibility.

Blaming others is the opposite of responsibility, and no one will trust you.

Not taking part in the blame game also reduces toxicity in the workplace

51 Basic Skills Men Must Master In Life.

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1. Basic household repair.

2. How to buy a dress. Fit, fabric, texture, patterns.

3. Improve posture.

4. Know your body measurement.

5. Communicate what you want to barber.

6. Give a good massage.

7. Read body language.

8. Drive car and bike.

9. Throw a punch.

10. Squat, dead lift, bench press properly.

11. How to spot fake news.

12. Stand up for others.

How to beat Imposter Syndrome.

5 steps to have the career you want:

Have you ever felt like a fraud?

Like you haven’t earned your accomplishments?

You’re not alone.

Up to 82% of people suffer from Imposter Syndrome.

It’s the single greatest threat to your career (and reaching your potential).

Today I’ve going to break down WHY Imposter Syndrome happens

And a proven plan to overcome it.

Let’s get started.

So, why does Imposter Syndrome happen?

Credit goes to a quirky cognitive bias:

“Dunning-Kruger Effect”

Dunning-Kruger Effect

Novices experience overconfidence due to quick progression on the learning curve.

While experts’ confidence drops because they realize what they don’t yet know.

Paradoxically, the more you become an expert, the more you may feel like an imposter.

Most people suck at writing.

But if you avoid these 12 common mistakes, I guarantee you won’t:

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❌ Not Varying Sentence Length

We don’t see what we read.
We hear it.

If each sentence is the same length, you sound boring.

Instead, aim for 20% long and 80% short.

Make your sentences sing.

❌ Writing and Editing Together

Writing and editing are two separate skills.

Mix them and you suck at both.

Instead:
Leave 24 hours between each session (longer if possible).

Write first, edit later.

❌Not Formatting

Before we read, we assess.

'Is this worth my energy?'

Be easy to read and you'll be easy to love.

❌ Sounding Academic

Schools teach you to use complex and clever language.

But online, personality wins.

Treat writing like a conversation with a close friend.

Read it out loud before you publish.

Delete anything you wouldn’t say in person.

7 simple habits that will change your life (in 6 months or less):

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James Clear says it best:

“If successful and unsuccessful people share the same goals, then the goal cannot be what differentiates the winners from the losers.”

If you want a better life, you need to build better habits.

Here are the 7 that changed mine:

1. Journaling

Daily journaling creates a sense of clarity.

It allows you to reflect on:

- Where you are
- Where you want to go
- And what you need to do to get there

Journaling for 15 minutes in the morning helps me stay focused on my goals throughout the day.

2. Delayed Gratification

You need to value long term gain over short term happiness.

Anything worth achieving takes time.

There will be days, sometimes weeks, where you seem to make very little progress.

Fall in love with the process and the results will come.

3. Plan your day

“If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail.” — Benjamin Franklin

It's easy to waste a day when you don't know what you should be doing.

A plan provides actionable steps to take towards your goals.

Spend 15 minutes each night planning for tomorrow.