Standing on the cusp of 2021, life can be exhausting.
No matter where we look on social media, we will find people who seem wealthier, luckier, prettier, healthier, more popular, smarter, happier than us.
As highly ambitious people, what are we to do?
A solution to consider👇🏾
The solution, in three words:
Aim for Mediocrity
Here’s what I’ve done for years now:
1) Aim to be mediocre at most things.
2) Celebrate this mediocrity.
3) Then focus on excellence at a few things.
4) Make sure those few things align with my passions, my strengths, and what the world needs.
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5) Work hard at those few things for long periods of time.
6) Find rewards in the act of getting better, not in immediate external feedback.
7) Get clarity on what rewards really matter.
8) Trust that those rewards will come.
9) Tweak my approach as I learn more.
An acceptance of our mediocrity is a ticket to freedom.
Very few smart & ambitious people recognize this.
This isn’t about giving up or "being a loser".
It’s about recognizing that very few of the things that bring us lifelong anxiety actually matter, when all is said & done.