Boys of the past 3 generations weren’t told we have that power. Conspiracy or not, this has been a cancer for us
The first mindf*ck we wrestle with when sh*t hits the fan is that for men, the answer to better relationships cannot be found by looking at the relationship, or even in looking at the person we’re with
Fact is that all our relationship issues have very little to do with either
Boys of the past 3 generations weren’t told we have that power. Conspiracy or not, this has been a cancer for us
Fact is, no one cares what we need. No one owes us anything. Relationships aren’t “for” us (as receivers)
Nature designed a protector for them, and that’s us
So stop talking about your “relationship”, get your body fit and learn to fight
Stop talking about “love languages” with a therapist, and practice mindfulness and mental toughness
Stop thinking about them so much and what they should or shouldn’t be doing, and go make a positive impact on your community
You REALLY don’t need to talk as much as you thought you did. I mean really
People become naturally attracted to you (this guy doesn’t “need anything.... I want that”)
When you see how pervasive their need for safety and validation is, even your mom becomes your daughter
Really, it’s got nothing to do with them
You get fucking jacked every day and lift cities.
You make power moves with money, changing your life and the lives of those around you
You say yes or no based on whatever the fuck YOU want
More from Society
Like most movements, I have learned that the definition of feminism has expanded to include simply treating women like human beings.
(A thread for whoever feels like reading)
I have observed feminists on Twitter advocating for rape victims to be heard, rapists to be held accountable, for people to address the misogyny that is deeply rooted in our culture, and for women to be treated with respect.
To me, very easy things to get behind.
And the amount of pushback they receive for those very basic requests is appalling. I see men trip over themselves to defend rape and rapists and misogyny every chance they get. Some accounts are completely dedicated to harassing women on this site. It’s unhealthy.
Furthermore, I have observed how dedicated these misogynists are by how they treat other men that do not immediately side with them. There is an entire lexicon they have created for men who do not openly treat women with disrespect.
Ex: simp, cuck, white knight, beta
All examples of terms they use to demean a man who respects women.
To paraphrase what a wise man on this app said:
Some men hate women so much, they hate men who don’t hate women
(A thread for whoever feels like reading)
Neighborhood gents, what\u2019s something you\u2019ve learned about feminism (or gained a better understanding of) that you think other men should know?
— feminist next door (@emrazz) February 19, 2021
Note - the quoted is a friendly/good faith replier. https://t.co/048kuxxX6q
I have observed feminists on Twitter advocating for rape victims to be heard, rapists to be held accountable, for people to address the misogyny that is deeply rooted in our culture, and for women to be treated with respect.
To me, very easy things to get behind.
And the amount of pushback they receive for those very basic requests is appalling. I see men trip over themselves to defend rape and rapists and misogyny every chance they get. Some accounts are completely dedicated to harassing women on this site. It’s unhealthy.
Furthermore, I have observed how dedicated these misogynists are by how they treat other men that do not immediately side with them. There is an entire lexicon they have created for men who do not openly treat women with disrespect.
Ex: simp, cuck, white knight, beta
All examples of terms they use to demean a man who respects women.
To paraphrase what a wise man on this app said:
Some men hate women so much, they hate men who don’t hate women