Desire creates pain in our lives.
But living a life void of desire is equally, if not more, painful.
The Paradoxes of Desire: 🧵
Desire creates pain in our lives.
But living a life void of desire is equally, if not more, painful.
The more intensely you desire something, the harder it seems to attain.
If you don’t desire something with enough intensity, you never do what's required to attain it.
We desire comfort, security, and safety.
But nothing we desire can be obtained without risk.
We desire two separate things that can't co-exist.
For example ⏤
You desire to be free to do whatever you want without accountability.
But you also desire to be trusted by others.
We actively desire things that can never happen.
Regret is an unfulfillable desire.
It focuses the energy of desire on changing something in the past.
What we want changes over time.
But our deepest desires - to be loved, to be validated - never change.
We know what's best for us, but don't want it.
We know what's bad for us, and are consumed by it.
Many desires are self-destructive in nature.
Whatever we have is not what we want.
But when we get something different, we quickly start looking for something better.
It's okay for us to desire something.
But we get bothered when someone else wants the same thing.
A prime example ⏤
You desperately want to be liked but are annoyed by someone else's attempt to achieve the same end.
When two desires are in conflict with one another we tend to abandon them both.
We work hard to fulfill a desire.
Only to feel like it wasn't worth it when we get it.
We spend our lives dreaming about things we desire.
But we take no action to pursue them.
If it helped you, I'd be grateful if you'd:
•Retweet the first tweet so others find it too
•Follow me @wdmorrisjr ⏤ it encourages me to keep writing!
h/t @sahilbloom for inspiring me to recognize the paradoxes all around us.
Here's his banger of a thread:
https://t.co/p5T2DDvWev
The most powerful paradoxes of life:
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) November 21, 2021
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Shared a lot of wins publicly in 2021, so it feels appropriate to share the losses just as publicly.
Here are my 10 biggest Ls from 2021 (and what I learned from each one):
Dopamine Addiction
Humans were not made for social media—the dopamine hits are dangerous.
I fell victim.
On several occasions, I found myself constantly refreshing my notifications on a viral thread.
It was gross.
I’m learning to physically force separation to avoid it.
Hustle Culture Fail
I spent the better part of the last decade as a hustle culture aficionado.
Then I burned myself out and was totally incapable of thinking creatively.
I made a change. Now I:
• Work like a lion
• Sleep 8 hours
• Take more walks
My life & work have 10Xed.
Solana Fail
I invested in Solana early and was riding high when it hit $30+ in April—10X+ on my investment.
I sold it and thought I was the next Warren Buffett.
Then it hit $100, $200, & $250—as I stubbornly sat on the sidelines refusing to re-enter.
I am not Warren Buffett.
The Hedonic Treadmill
I tweeted this in May—and then failed to practice what I preached.
Every win felt a bit less exciting. It’s part of our biology, but it was no way to live.
Measure internally, not externally.
Here are my 10 biggest Ls from 2021 (and what I learned from each one):
Dopamine Addiction
Humans were not made for social media—the dopamine hits are dangerous.
I fell victim.
On several occasions, I found myself constantly refreshing my notifications on a viral thread.
It was gross.
I’m learning to physically force separation to avoid it.
Hustle Culture Fail
I spent the better part of the last decade as a hustle culture aficionado.
Then I burned myself out and was totally incapable of thinking creatively.
I made a change. Now I:
• Work like a lion
• Sleep 8 hours
• Take more walks
My life & work have 10Xed.
Solana Fail
I invested in Solana early and was riding high when it hit $30+ in April—10X+ on my investment.
I sold it and thought I was the next Warren Buffett.
Then it hit $100, $200, & $250—as I stubbornly sat on the sidelines refusing to re-enter.
I am not Warren Buffett.
The Hedonic Treadmill
I tweeted this in May—and then failed to practice what I preached.
Every win felt a bit less exciting. It’s part of our biology, but it was no way to live.
Measure internally, not externally.
The Hedonic Treadmill is real.
— Sahil Bloom (@SahilBloom) May 21, 2021
Humans have a tendency to quickly return to a baseline level of happiness after positive events.
Step off the treadmill.
Focus on increasing your happiness baseline, not on the height or frequency of the spikes above it.
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