I sat my husband down one day and asked him; 'what do you really need from me? How can I keep making you happy and satisfied?' Oga said; 'good food and sex'. From a logical standpoint, you might be easily fooled to think that this is all he needs but the truth is that, this

is actually what he feels he is not getting enough of or these might just be his priorities. I had to sit down and think about it, if I satisfy him with good food and sex, his needs might either change to another area I am not covering or he might just be contented. I have seen
so many gender wars and lots of takes from the female folks but most times, those same people make outrageous demands compared to what they are willing to offer. You want a man to pamper you, buy you gifts, be there for you, never cheat, make you the center of his world, etc, but
you have not even done the barest minimum to ask him what he needs? In this life, everything comes with a price, and ironically, we all get to choose the price we are willing to pay. Are you willing to selflessly fulfill the desires of a man that fulfills yours? Just the way you
want that diamond ring, a trip to Dubai, someone to massage your back and call you sweet names while checking up on you regularly without having eyes for another woman and you imagine it as your ideal relationship, that man is imagining a wife that will give him great sex, listen
to him when he has a day from work, prepare a warm bath for him, make the bed, prepare a clean set of clothes at home, make lovely dishes and smile disarming smiles to him that will put his mind at ease so that he can be willing to do anything to keep the smile on your face!
nobody, I repeat nobody deserves a selfish and self-serving partner. If you are not willing to pay the price selflessly, you might be paying a bigger price you didn't bargain for. Let us try as much as possible to treat people the way we wish to be treated in their 'style'
everyone has a spec. I have always wanted a man I can build with and also someone I can make an impact in his life. I have always wanted to be so relevant in his life that I will be the center of his world, but it is not wishful thinking. It means that I have to be dependable
and useful. I have to be able to touch his need points and most importantly, I have to be able to understand and care for him in the way he wants to be cared for and more. I have to be able to give him what he can't give himself in ways he can't think of, not going for kaimata or
stuff like that but allowing him to rationally decide to make me the center of his universe without waiving. Love is not a chemical reaction we can't control, love is a rational decision we make because we know and we are sure that this person deserves the keys to our heart
Our soul, Spirit, and body at some point agree together that this person is all we need and we have good reasons to back up our claims. I love reading romance novels, but I don't just read the beautiful stories, I try to analyze their characters and I often understand one thing;
oftentimes, both parties are willing to go to any length to meet the needs of their partners selflessly even if it means inconveniencing themselves. They don't consider roles, they just go with the flow because they love each other. This is why I don't like entering stupid
threads. I can't be demanding a place in your heart by displaying someone else. I don't want to be in anybody's shadows, not even your mother's. I want my unique spot in your heart, I don't even want to fill any void. I want to enlarge that heart of yours to accommodate me!

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Isaiah 58:9 MSG
Then when you pray, God will answer. You'll call out for help and I'll say, 'Here I am.'

*When God Shows Up -Day 1*

*Luke 7v11-17 MSG*
Talks about a widow, whose life was filled with losses & misery. She lived in Nain.
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She had no name.


๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผHer misery was used to describe her.
๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผMisery had indeed wrapped itself round her like a fitted garment. She was only identified as *THE WIDOW OF NAIN*
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She had lost her hubby, probably a few months or years back, & now, her only son was gone.๐Ÿ˜ฅ
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Nonetheless, this widow of

Nain proceeded to bury her only son.
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There were people there pretending to be mourning, meanwhile, they were gossiping amongst themselves..๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ"When did she lose her husband that we are once again burying her only son?

๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผAre we sure she is not a witch?

๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผIs she the only

one in town?
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From one tragedy to another.

๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผGod must be punishing her for her sins."
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By this time too, the grave diggers were waiting. They had completed the task of digging the sons grave, & only waiting to be paid their balance

๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸผThe mourners at the graveyard were

waiting too, but, suddenly, the Lord saw her...felt her pain & showered her with compassion.
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*Luke 7:14 MSG*
Then He went over and touched the coffin. The pallbearers stopped. He said, "Young man, I tell you: Get up."
*Luke 7:15*
The dead son sat up and began talking.

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