1. Begging you for forgiveness ЁЯзОтАНтЩАя╕П
When we do something wrong, big or small, then we should be apologising to you and asking for you to forgive and forget what we have done! ЁЯШм
You can decide how we apologise!
2. Begging for your attention ЁЯЩП
Denying us things in a playful way can really polarise the masculine-feminine energy тШпя╕П
Try denying us things that we REALLY want! ЁЯЩГ
3. Asking you for permission to do things ЁЯзР
Things both in and out of the bedroom!
It's polite of us but more importantly it creates more polarity!! (I know I use that word a lot ЁЯШЕ)
4. Being restrained with ropes тЫУ
It doesn't matter if you're rope skills are pretty or if it's a mess... at least in the beginning! ЁЯШИ
Rope, straps, cable ties etc. They are all good.
5. Have us nod for you more ЁЯШЗ
When you give us commands, make sure we nod too.
Words + Actions = Intensity
6. Allow us to feel 100000% safe around you ЁЯе░
Try and remove as many worries about money, security, health and our future as possible, then we don't have to waste energy worrying! ЁЯШЕ
This is hard to find!!!
7. Listening to OUR fantasies and taking us through them in your own time тШ║
You're able to listen to our hints and then take us through all of our crazy ideas.
This is on top of already doing whatever YOU want to do! ЁЯШО
8. Cuddles right after super crazy sex ЁЯдЧ
This one might sound really obvious but I think it's important after you've really "degraded" us ЁЯШИ
Super dark to super light emotions! ЁЯШН
9. Choking us to show us it's not as bad as we thought ЁЯШ╡
If your lover has never been choked, she may wonder why people even enjoy it ЁЯзР
But she will quickly realise after you start! ЁЯдд
10. Making us feel incredibly beautiful and desired ЁЯТГ
Not with words and compliments, but with your eagerness and devilish looking eyes! ЁЯШИ
Make us feel like your prized property! ЁЯШП
11. Have us discover what "pleasurable pain" is тЫУ
Slowly increase our pain tolerance during sex and tell us to enjoy the pain because that's as much as we're going to get! ЁЯШЕЁЯШЛ
12. Feeling "beneath" you ЁЯШЗ
We feel more comfortable when you seem to be better than us at most things!
Including sex! ЁЯда
Then being physically beneath you also helps!
13. The feeling of missing you super badly ЁЯШн
Maybe you need to travel for work, family or something else... it gives us a chance to truly appreciate you!
The more we miss you, the stronger our bond will be! ЁЯе░
14. Rewarding us for behaviour you like ЁЯе│
Don't bribe your lover with rewards!
Reward her spontaneously! ЁЯШН
15. Transforming our view of the world ЁЯШО
Help us see things that we were blind to before we met!
This has been so important for me, I'm a totally different person because of my man! ЁЯШГ
When you believe something strongly enough, it will rub off on us! тЬи
16. Having us use our safeword! ЁЯШИ
This means that you have found our limits and are slowly pushing them!
It also means you're brave enough to test how far we can go! ЁЯТк
These 16 ideas are a good start if you want to take your relationship from poor/average to incredible ЁЯШО
Your relationship should be working FOR you and not against you! тШпя╕П
This is the real reason we care about these things... but they are fun too! ЁЯдк
Now please go and try!!