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11 harsh truths that changed my life (and may change yours):

 Harsh Truth: You'll only see your loved ones a few more times.

In May 2021, I had a conversation with a friend that changed my life.

I was talking about living in California—so far away from my parents in Boston—when my friend asked how often I saw them and how old they were...
I said I saw them about once per year, and that they were in their mid-60s.

He said, "Ok, so you'll see them 15 more times in your life."

Gut punch. It sounds insensitive—but it's just real.

Our time is finite, but we fail to recognize it until it's too late...
Later that month, we sold our house in California and moved to the East Coast to be closer to our parents.

It was the best decision I've ever made.

I'll never regret those tiny moments—of doing nothing in particular—that we'll get to spend together in the years ahead.
Harsh Truth: Most of your friends aren’t really your friends.

They’re just along for the ride when it’s fun, convenient, or valuable.

Your real friends are the ones who are there for you when it's none of those—when you have *nothing* to offer in return.

Cherish them.
Harsh Truth: Money is the terrible barometer of happiness.

I used to see people with lots of money and assume everything in their life must be amazing.

I was wrong.

Money is correlated with happiness up to a baseline level—that level is lower than you think...
Beyond it, there are diminishing returns to more money.

If you think that you'll be happy once you have X, you're probably wrong.

You'll get there and just want 3x more.

The hedonic treadmill is real—we simply adapt and look for what's next.

Prioritize internal happiness.
Harsh Truth: Failure doesn't always lead to growth.

There's this common Twitter adage that failure is a good thing because it leads to growth.

But sometimes failure just leads to pain.

Sometimes you fail and it just hurts—you don't grow, you don't find light. It just sucks...
Sometimes you get knocked down and can't get back up.

In those instances, know you're not alone.

It's ok to admit that the glamorized version of failure isn't always in sync with reality.

When you're in it, find a friend to lean on.

When someone else is in it, be that friend.
Harsh Truth: You'll literally never know what you want to be when you grow up.

The idea that you should know what you want to do with your life by the time you are 20 is one of the worst lies we are told.

I spent years stressing out over my lack of a clearly defined path...
But then I realized that most hyper-successful people still have no idea what they want to do.

They just have a bias for action that has allowed them to capitalize on opportunities and compound effectively over time.

If you have a bias for action, you'll always be fine.
Harsh Truth: Most people don't really care about you.

The Spotlight Effect says that we overestimate the degree to which other people are noticing or observing our appearance or actions.

Basically, we think people care about us WAY MORE than they actually do.
I used to worry about every little thing I did, thinking that people would scrutinize or judge me.

It's pretty liberating to realize that, for the most part, everyone is really just going through life worried about themselves.

Be yourself and live life according to your values.
Harsh Truth: You probably won't be remembered or have a legacy.

I used to be obsessed with the idea of leaving a legacy and being remembered.

But I eventually realized that even the most amazing and successful people will eventually be forgotten if you extend the time horizon.
In a few thousand years, chances are we will all be forgotten.

It's not a bad thing to want to be remembered, but chasing legacy can be a recipe for disappointment.

I've chosen to chase something else—the lives I can impact today, the happiness I can create in those around me.
Harsh Truth: The timelines we create for ourselves are mostly just arbitrary nonsense.

On my 28th birthday, I was driving and had this random rush of anxiety.

I was like “Holy shit, I’m turning 30 next year, and I’ve accomplished nothing. I gotta get going!”
Then I remembered I was turning 28—not 29—and felt relieved that I had 2 years to figure out my life...

We create timelines in our minds:

• X title by X age
• Y salary by Y age

It's stupid.

Be curious and spend time with great people. The rest will take care of itself.
Harsh Truth: There's no such thing as a hack.

Everyone wants the hacks or shortcuts, but there’s literally no such thing.

If anyone tries to sell you one, you should run away as fast as you can.

The only hack is painful, relentless consistency. It’s not sexy, but it works.
Harsh Truth: Hard work and consistency isn't always enough.

There's a common phrase: "Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard."

I had a coach who used to add: "...but if talent works hard, you’re pretty much f*****, so let’s hope it doesn’t."
Funny, but true.

Do your best, but don't assume it's always going to be enough.

Hard work and consistency will always give you a shot, but sometimes you're just going to get beat.

If you lose, it better be that the person is simply more talented than you. Never beat yourself.
Harsh Truth: The world is definitively not fair.

Bad people win and good people lose—all the time.

There is an uncontrollable luck that impacts our lives. Where we are born, who we are born to, and the circumstances of our early childhood all have an outsized impact.
But within that context, there are bright spots.

The opportunity playing field is leveling.

The Internet and access to technology is opening up the world.

The world may never be truly fair, but it will always belong to those who make the most of what they have before them.
Those are 11 harsh truths that changed my life (and may change yours).

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Join me tomorrow at 12pm EST on @getcallin for a live discussion and AMA on these (and more) harsh truths of life.

I’ll be taking live questions from those who join.

If anyone wants to join as a speaker, text or DM me. https://t.co/lnrmEtEipr
This was a wonderful, vulnerable conversation on harsh truths of life on @getcallin.

Several incredibly powerful questions from the audience and an eye-opening discussion.

Worth a listen. https://t.co/lnrmEtEipr
Beautiful visualization from @SachinRamje summarizing this thread.

More writing to come on this topic…

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Many of the brightest minds in the investing world share one common trait: they recommend dollar cost averaging as an investment strategy.

But what is dollar cost averaging and how does it work?

Here's Dollar Cost Averaging 101!

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1/ Dollar cost averaging, or "DCA" for short, is a simple investment strategy in which an investor splits the total amount to be invested in a given asset across regular periodic purchases.

The regular purchases occur regardless of price, volatility, or economic conditions.

2/ The goal is to remove the complexities of market timing from the process, allowing an investor to build their desired position without concern for external factors.

Its simplicity removes behavioral and psychological biases from the equation.

Let's look at an example.

3/ Imagine you want to build a $10,000 position in bitcoin. You have done your research and believe in the long-term story.

You aren't sure if it will go up or down in the near-term, so you decide to dollar-cost average.

Great decision! How will you do it?


4/ You split the $10,000 up into 20 pieces ($500 each). You could have done any number of pieces, but 20 felt right.

You decide on a weekly DCA, so every Monday, you buy $500 of $BTC, regardless of price. After 20 weeks, you have built your desired $10,000 cost basis position.
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Survivorship Bias 101

History is written by the victors. But if we exclusively focus on these successes, we allow survivorship bias to distort our understanding of the world.

But what is "survivorship bias" and how does it work?

Here's Survivorship Bias 101!

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1/ First, a few definitions.

Survivorship bias is the logical error of concentrating on survivors (successes) and ignoring casualties (failures).

When we do so, we miss the true "base rates" of survival (the actual probability of success) and arrive at flawed conclusions.

2/ When we completely ignore failures, we lose our ability to correctly identify the differences between successes and failures.

Put simply, exclusively focusing on successes may actually inhibit our ability to identify (and replicate) the actions that led to such success.


3/ Cicero wrote on the topic over 2,000 years ago.

An atheist named Diagoras is shown portraits of people who prayed and were saved from death at sea as proof of God's existence.

Diagoras replies, "I see those who were saved, but where are those painted who were shipwrecked?"


4/ Cicero cuts right to the point - we cannot conclude that prayer led to being saved from the sea if we ignore those who prayed and then drowned.

Survivorship bias can lead to a deeply-flawed understanding of cause-and-effect relationships.

Let's look at some examples.
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The Feynman Technique is a foundational mental model for unlocking growth in your career, startup, business, or writing.

A thread on how it works and how it can change your life...


Richard Feynman was an American theoretical physicist.

He won the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1965 for his groundbreaking work in quantum electrodynamics.

Feynman's true genius, however, was in his ability to convey extremely complex ideas in simple, digestible ways.


Richard Feynman observed that complexity and jargon are often used to mask a lack of deep understanding.

The Feynman Technique is a learning framework that forces you to strip away needless complexity and develop a deep, elegant understanding of a given topic.

The Feynman Technique involves four key steps:

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Step 1: Identify

What is the topic you want to learn more about?

Identify the topic and write down everything you know about it.

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10 common mental errors that derail decision-making:

Survivorship Bias

History is written by the victors.

But in studying and learning from "survivors”—and systematically ignoring "casualties”—we create material distortions in our conclusions.

We overestimate the odds of success because we only read about the successes!

Naïve Realism

Humans generally think very highly of themselves.

We tend to believe that we see the world with perfect objectivity.

We also assume that people who disagree with us must be ignorant, uninformed, or biased.

This error sits at the core of many societal problems.

The Dunning-Kruger Effect

Humans are notoriously incapable of objective evaluation of their own competency levels.

People with a low ability at a task are prone to systematically overestimate their ability at that task.

Example: Everyone is a genius in a bull market.

Loss Aversion

Humans tend to prefer avoiding losses vs. achieving gains—the pain of losing something is more powerful than the pleasure of winning it.

We will typically do more to avoid losses than we will to seek gains.

We systematically overvalue what we already have.
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A paradox is a seemingly self-contradictory statement that proves true.

The most powerful paradoxes I’ve found:

The Paradox of Failure

You have to fail more to succeed more.

Our greatest moments of growth often stem directly from our greatest moments of failure.

Don’t fear failure.

Learn to fail smart and fast—never fail the same way twice.

Always put yourself in the arena.

The Paradox of Persuasion

Ever notice that the most argumentative people rarely persuade anyone of anything?

Persuasive people don’t argue—they observe, listen, and ask questions.

Argue less, persuade more.

Persuasion is an art that requires a paintbrush, not a sledgehammer.

The Paradox of Productivity

Work longer, get less done.

Parkinson's Law says that work expands to fill the time available for its completion.

When you establish fixed hours to work, you'll find unproductive ways to fill it.

Work like a lion instead—sprint, rest, repeat.

The Paradox of Effort

You have to put in more effort to make something appear effortless.

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Small things become big things.

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They share the same Japanese Voice actress! Rie Kugimiya.
Usually this is a stretch reason, but considering everything else, it’s not unlikely that it’s the same character.

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