We cannot become saints, we cannot be saved, we cannot even have faith, hope, or charity (in the supernatural sense, the only one that matters) without God's grace. How do we get/increase in grace, mature our interior lives, become better people? There are three ways (thread):

The first means is merit. Merit is when we "earn" grace by good works, obtaining a right to an increase in God's supernatural life on the basis of God's justice & promised rewards. Since our ability to merit comes from Christ, only those already in a state of grace can merit 1/
Say someone asks us for help, giving an opportunity to exercise charity - we could either not do it, which merits nothing; we could simply do it, which merits an increase in the grace of charity; or we could do it with hesitation or grumbling, which merits, but imperfectly 2/
It is thought that when we merit imperfectly, we don't immediately obtain the graces merited. Some believe we receive those graces from the Lord when we next receive communion, others not until we pass from this life to the next 3/
When we perform a good work as we ought to, however, God immediately grants His grace, thus allowing us to go from height to height in virtue by working selflessly again and again with more and more supernatural charity to sustain us 4/
The second means is prayer. Prayer is superior to merit for two reasons: first and foremost, prayer is an appeal to God's mercy, while merit appeals to His justice, and weak as we are, we can beg far more from His mercy than we could ever hope to earn from His justice 5/
Second, since it is an appeal to God's mercy, prayer is a means of obtaining grace which is open even to those who have fallen out of a state of grace: no one is ever barred from prayer, while many are barred from merit due to mortal sin or lack of baptism 6/
The third means is the sacraments. The sacraments are superior to both merit and prayer because merit and prayer both depend on us, how fervent we are, etc., while the sacraments work of themselves, depending only on God, as long as we don't resist or impede them 7/
As a result, if we receive the sacraments often (such as weekly Eucharist) but see no notable improvement in our spiritual lives or growth in virtue, it is worth reflecting where we may be impeding the work God wants to do, for example by clinging to a specific venial sin 8/
These three are the means God has given us to grow in Him, increase our share in His life, and save our souls. They build on each other: receiving the sacraments can help us to pray better and merit more, we can pray to merit more and receive the sacraments better, and so on 9/9

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Starts the night before.

9 evening habits that make all the difference:

1. Write down tomorrow's 3:3:3 plan

• 3 hours on your most important project
• 3 shorter tasks
• 3 maintenance activities

Defining a "productive day" is crucial.

Or else you'll never be at peace (even with excellent output).

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2. End the workday with a shutdown ritual

Create a short shutdown ritual (hat-tip to Cal Newport). Close your laptop, plug in the charger, spend 2 minutes tidying your desk. Then say, "shutdown."

Separating your life and work is key.

3. Journal 1 beautiful life moment

Delicious tacos, presentation you crushed, a moment of inner peace. Write it down.

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4. Lay out clothes

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प्राचीन काल में गाधि नामक एक राजा थे।उनकी सत्यवती नाम की एक पुत्री थी।राजा गाधि ने अपनी पुत्री का विवाह महर्षि भृगु के पुत्र से करवा दिया।महर्षि भृगु इस विवाह से बहुत प्रसन्न हुए और उन्होने अपनी पुत्रवधु को आशीर्वाद देकर उसे कोई भी वर मांगने को कहा।


सत्यवती ने महर्षि भृगु से अपने तथा अपनी माता के लिए पुत्र का वरदान मांगा।ये जानकर महर्षि भृगु ने यज्ञ किया और तत्पश्चात सत्यवती और उसकी माता को अलग-अलग प्रकार के दो चरू (यज्ञ के लिए पकाया हुआ अन्न) दिए और कहा कि ऋतु स्नान के बाद तुम्हारी माता पुत्र की इच्छा लेकर पीपल का आलिंगन...

...करें और तुम भी पुत्र की इच्छा लेकर गूलर वृक्ष का आलिंगन करना। आलिंगन करने के बाद चरू का सेवन करना, इससे तुम दोनो को पुत्र प्राप्ति होगी।परंतु मां बेटी के चरू आपस में बदल जाते हैं और ये महर्षि भृगु अपनी दिव्य दृष्टि से देख लेते हैं।

भृगु ऋषि सत्यवती से कहते हैं,"पुत्री तुम्हारा और तुम्हारी माता ने एक दुसरे के चरू खा लिए हैं।इस कारण तुम्हारा पुत्र ब्राह्मण होते हुए भी क्षत्रिय सा आचरण करेगा और तुम्हारी माता का पुत्र क्षत्रिय होकर भी ब्राह्मण सा आचरण करेगा।"
इस पर सत्यवती ने भृगु ऋषि से बड़ी विनती की।


सत्यवती ने कहा,"मुझे आशीर्वाद दें कि मेरा पुत्र ब्राह्मण सा ही आचरण करे।"तब महर्षि ने उसे ये आशीर्वाद दे दिया कि उसका पुत्र ब्राह्मण सा ही आचरण करेगा किन्तु उसका पौत्र क्षत्रियों सा व्यवहार करेगा। सत्यवती का एक पुत्र हुआ जिसका नाम जम्दाग्नि था जो सप्त ऋषियों में से एक हैं।